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I Let me ask you this...
Be honest with me here. I really want to know.
Maybe you're worried about your job or the economy. Or, you wonder if you'll ever get that lucky break. Why we seem to repeat our mistakes...If you're like me, then you've probably watched yourself do many of these same things... REPEATEDLY. And what's the WORST part about going through one of these things? Well, if you ask me, the most PAINFUL part of it is that as you're going through it, you often KNOW what you're doing, but say to yourself that "it's different this time!" But later, after things have blown over, you know that... It's you who reacted in anger... It's you who chose to date the same kind of guy you've always dated... It's you who felt too scared to ask for what you wanted... It wasn't the other person. It wasn't the situation. It wasn't ANYTHING else. It was YOU... and you know it. Deep down, you know that you are responsible for the life you're living right now, like it or not. And if you DON'T know it... you're definitely at the wrong web site! And that's the hard part... You really, REALLY want to do things differently from now on, but can't or don't know how. Why Is This So Hard?After spending many years doing "self-help", and working to figure out my own crazy mind and emotions, I started to wonder...
After all, I seemed to be doing pretty well on the surface. The "funny" part was that it was the stuff going on INSIDE that eventually blew my external world apart. If you've read my story, you'll know what I'm talking about. If you haven't.... well, just wait... It's Not Your Fault...I've made a ton of mistakes in my life... many of them several times. Being a rational person, when I came up against something that wasn't working out the way I wanted, I approached it like having a flat tire on my car. I fixed the tire. Makes sense, right? But what I discovered was that I kept "driving down the same road" with the same pot holes, nails, and abandoned cars. My "flat tires" always felt familiar. See, you... I... everyone... have these "programmed" beliefs, thoughts and emotions that keep us going down the same road, changing or replacing the same tires, and generally repeating the same mistakes. And all the self-help, "think good thoughts" programs we've tried don't work in the long run because they're just ways of patching the tire without ever getting off that same road chock-full of nails! The Big Moment That Put Me On a Different RouteLike I said, I'd done well for myself and was feeling pretty smug. Basically, I did well because I was willing to work hard and follow the advice of someone who'd figured it out before me. I'd gone from high school dropout working at a gas station for just over a buck an hour to millionaire within just a few short years. I took some big risks to get there, but mostly because I didn't have a lot to lose. (Isn't it strange that our biggest gains come when we have the least to lose?) I was wealthy. I married a great woman. I had wonderful kids. Then, wham! I hit a big old pot hole that I'd been passing, but fortunately missed nearly every day of my life. My wife left me (for a lot of very good reasons, as it turns out). My kids moved away to the other end of the country. I had to quit my 15-year-old business that had made me millions because it felt like I was living a big lie. I could no longer teach others about success and happiness while my own life was crumbling around me and I hurt like crazy on the inside. I had to face the fact that I was unhappy and lost. I had NO clue what to do next. I thought that once I'd made a fortune I'd be happy as a clam for the rest of my life. Ha! I went from being on top of the world to sitting alone, angry and depressed. I Gave Up... And That's When Everything ChangedWhy did this happen to me?Isn't that the question you ask yourself? I sure did. It's all I thought about when I left everything behind and camped out on a beach I knew about on the North Shore of the island of Kauai. Remember those big cliffs you saw as they flew the helicopter toward the island used for the movie Jurassic Park? That's where I went - to the bottom of those cliffs, pretty much away from everyone and everything. It was beautiful, but lonely. I thought it would be the ideal spot to escape the pain I felt. I spent days going over every little detail of what had happened to me. No matter how hard I thought, I couldn't figure it out. I'd made some huge mistakes, but why did I get slammed to the ground so hard? I was a nice guy, and I thought that I'd figured it all out. I followed the rules, made a lot of money like I was "supposed to", and never asked for too much. Why me? Why now? Finally... The "Ah-Ha!" MomentMaybe it was the idyllic setting. Maybe it had something to do with not eating. Whatever it was, it came to me from "outside" my rational mind. It was more like a spark of understanding... an awareness that was "given" to me as a gift, simply for asking the questions I was asking. Over the next couple of days, I felt like someone had taken a big eraser to my brain. Gone were years of programming... certain beliefs I held that kept me going down that same road that eventually led to my failures. I'd figured a few things out. Call them "secrets" if you will, but I'm not about to take ownership. It's information we all have available to us. Bottom Line: Anyone Could Have Done What I did...I came home a changed man. I quickly got my business back on track, met my soul mate, and am perhaps more in touch with my emotions than she! I love my life. I have a purpose, and I'm living it. And the old stress, worry, and anxiety that my success is "out of place" is gone completely. Several years ago, I put down my discoveries in a book I called "Rings of Truth." It's the true story of how I discovered the principles you'll learn in the Power of Letting Go, and how I used them to change my life in every way. It's a story about how I learned to feel calm and control in any situation... how to stop anxiety in its tracks... and how to attract money like bees to honey. (You'll see later how to get a copy of Rings of Truth for free...) The real "Ah-Ha!" moment, though, came for me when I had a simple realization: I realized that instead of trying to get the things I wanted by working harder, learning more, or striving... I would get FAR better results if I wiped away the things that were KEEPING me from getting what I wanted. In other words, it's more of a cleansing process. Trying to get ahead without letting go of these old beliefs, habits thoughts and emotions is like trying to get up a mountain by carrying an elephant. It's just not going to happen, and you're likely to get squashed! That one simple shift in thinking changed my focus, took me in a brand-new direction, and ultimately had a major effect on my long-term success... Let Go of Your Inner Barriers To Success, and Success Will Come to YouThis new mindset allowed me to see that my difficulty in getting and KEEPING what I wanted was created by those mounds of old beliefs and ideas... things that had been there all my life, but weren't "mine." The interesting thing about these inner obstacles is that they're layered and interconnected. For example:
I think you see how this goes. It's crazy-making, isn't it? I'm going to share MY core list of "things to let go of" with you. I've labeled them as common feelings because that's the quickest and easiest way to recognize if you've run into one of these road blocks. Read through these, and see if this makes sense to you...
Many of us are controlled by our fears and worries. We spend so much time afraid that something might happen that we go out of our way to MAKE it happen. Now this doesn't happen all the time, but most of the time when we focus a lot of attention on something we're afraid of, it ends up happening. Have you ever...
I remember suggesting to a friend that she let go of the idea that her co-worker was manipulative and hard to get along with. After some effort, she "gave it a try." For the first time EVER, her co-worker was pleasant... ALL DAY! Yes, it's THAT powerful.When you understand the root belief or underlying thought that triggers your fear, anxiety, worry or doubt, and you LET GO of that belief or thought, not only do you LOSE the feeling, the events that TRIGGER the feeling stop happening. THAT one fact has meant miraculous changes for thousands of people around the world.
Sure, life can be frustrating. People DO things that can really tick you off. And don't you resent those idiots who take advantage of your kindness to screw you over?
The problem with holding grudges or letting anger and frustration get the better of you is that it's YOU who end up hurt. It's like that woman I talk about on a video I recently made who "can't" do what she wants because her father used to abuse her... this is the same father that's been dead for several years. Who is abusing WHOM now? (Fill in the form on the right to see this and other videos on this process). I'm not suggesting that she deny her father's abuse... or that you deny whatever it is that happened to you. It happened. But that's the key... it HAPPENED. It's over. Do you think the other person is hurt by your anger? Do you REALLY think your frustration about not making the money you want is helping you to actually MAKE that money? And does ANYONE win in an argument? No. Any feeling or thought is either moving you TOWARD or AWAY FROM what you want. If your frustration, anger or resentment isn't getting you what you want (and I can GUARANTEE that it isn't!), then let it go.
Did I feel like I'd been taken advantage of by my first wife? You bet! Have I been "taken to the cleaners" in business? Absolutely. I've suffered through things breaking and never getting a refund... getting hit by unexpected credit card charges... screwed over by contractors... and people thinking that just because I have a little more money or time then they, that they can suck me dry... So what? It happens to everyone. Again, the question is: Do you think that people can't be trusted? If you can honestly say YES to this last question, then I truly feel sorry for you because you can't possibly get ahead if you're thinking about the past... and that's exactly what you're doing if you enter every relationship with skepticism.
The truth is that anything can happen at any time... and it often does. When you TRY to control things, you usually end up frustrated by the results. Letting go isn't about "gaining control" over your life and the things that happen in your life. That "out of control" feeling comes from past experiences when you may have experienced an unpleasant or frightening situation, got hurt in some way, and felt confused. Let me explain in more graphic terms: Say you're frustrated that you can't seem to lose weight, or you gain it right back. You've tried every diet, but no matter what you do your weight feels like its out of your hands. You feel out of control. Or, at work you find that you have no control over your destiny. Your boss doesn't see how good you are, you're passed over for promotions, and you're ignored when you apply for better jobs. Again, you feel like you have no control over your job or your future. Maybe you feel like you don't have any control in your relationship... or in the dating world. No matter how hard you try, you can't get past the second date, find out that you've attracted another jerk, can't get your partner to have sex with you, or every discussion ends up as a fight. Frustrating, isn't it? It just feels like you don't have control over what happens in your life. The interesting thing about this is that it has NOTHING at all to do with control! It's YOU... thinking that you just need the right diet... believing that if you do the "right" thing, you'll get that raise... or YOU feeling that you're unlovable, not worthy, or inadequate in some way. When you LET GO of these underlying beliefs, thoughts and feelings, then EVERYTHING changes. You realize that it's not about a "lack of control" at all. In fact... you realize that it's about YOU holding onto beliefs about yourself or your situation that ARE NOT TRUE! Stuff happens, and if you're not tied down by memories of getting hurt, you can look at every situation with fresh eyes. That, my friend, is REAL FREEDOM.
Can't decide which way is up? Having trouble finding your "life's purpose?" Here's a story that illustrates "lost and confused"... Steve tended to do pretty well at whatever he tried. He was good at a lot of things, but never exceptional at anything. As a result, Steve struggled to move beyond a moderate income or mid-level job in the companies where he was employed. You'd often hear Steve uttering the words, "If only..." -- "If only I'd kept at it a little longer..." "If only I'd started this 10 years ago..." "If only I had another shot at it..." For the life of him, Steve couldn't figure out his "purpose." Every time he went through one of those life-purpose exercises, he came out all pumped up and excited about "getting clear." Unfortunately, his clarity soon faded, and he was caught again in the never-ending cycle of confusion. Steve finally understood that he was replaying his father's life. He finally let go of an addictive cycle of mediocrity... in other words, Steve took on his father's belief that the people who succeeded only got there by screwing everyone else over... and BY GOD, he was not going to be like them! What you have to realize about Steve's situation is that this entire program was completely unconscious! It was so internalized that it was a part of his genetic makeup. You KNOW you want to be happy. Where's the confusion in that? Which leads me to tell you something you already know...
And... I think that you KNOW that the problem isn't that you need more techniques... You have that part of the "map" down. I think you realize that the problem is something BIGGER. Something more intense. Something more personal... and more difficult to face. I also think you know that if and when you DO tackle and defeat this problem --- and get this "other side" handled once and for all... you WILL achieve all the success with money... with relationships... and with your life that you were born to have. And I think you realize by now that this isn't going to happen by itself. The problem isn't going to "solve" itself... the pieces aren't going to just "fall into place"... and you will NOT have the success you are looking for unless you DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. The bad news is that this is never easy. In fact, for most people it is next to impossible. And sadly, most go their entire lives without ever handling their issues and achieving the success they deserve. I'll say it again:MOST PEOPLE GO THEIR ENTIRE LIVES WITHOUT HAVING THEY SUCCESS DESERVE. Fortunately, it DOESN'T have to be this way for YOU. How To Smash Through The "Internal Chatter" That Is Holding You Back From Success...If you're ready to finally get things "handled"… and say "GOODBYE" to the problems and issues that have sabotaged you with money, relationships, work, and happiness your entire life… I have some fantastic news for you… Remember when I'd talked about the breakthrough I had on the beach in Hawaii? When I got back, I wrote my book, "Rings of Truth," and got some rave reviews from all over the world. I was astounded, but not particularly surprised. So as I started answering people's letters and email, I started to see a pattern to the kinds of problems they were facing, and how what I was saying about Letting Go rang true for them... I noticed that what they had in common was a DESIRE to fulfill their deep-rooted and quite human needs for security, safety, love, and happiness. What was getting in their way were the deeply ingrained messages in various forms that they COULDN'T have these things, didn't deserve them, weren't capable of attaining them, or were in some way flawed so that it would never happen. Or, as in Steve's case above, the message was that "successful people" were evil, bad, or not to be trusted. Whatever the message or belief, the simple fact was that it was precisely the thing that was keeping the happiness, prosperity, or love they wanted just out of reach.... That girl who wouldn't go out on a date with you or dumped you without warning influenced EVERY SINGLE decision you made about dating from that point on... That ONE time you lost money on a bad investment has kept you from ever making another investment... And if good things DID ever come, like they did for me, then these deeply ingrained messages INSTRUCT you to sabotage your own good efforts! It's SO simple... and yet, so complex and difficult to overcome.You KNOW this because if it were so easy, then you'd be where you want to be by now with all that you've already learned. Understanding WHY Letting Go Works...If you watched my short videos about the letting go process, you would have seen clips from Dr. Emmett Miller. In the making of the Power of Letting Go, I talked to Dr. Miller, read books on psychology and science, and talked with numerous others to understand WHY this process of Letting Go works so well.
Here's a smattering of what I learned...
And ALL OF THIS happens in an instant, BEFORE the logical or rational part of your brain ever has a chance to "think it through." The more you repeat this cycle for any experience, such as being told that money doesn't grow on trees and is hard to come by, you subconsciously strengthen the neural pathways in your brain that equate MONEY = HARD TO GET. It's like trying to get out of a deep run in a road or trail. You can't without some effort, and it's really easy to slip back in. The truth is that upwards of 90% of our actions are controlled by these old ruts! We THINK we're thinking it through, but really what we're doing is coming up with a logical reason for the feelings we feel! Don't believe me?Several years ago, Dr. Drew Westen, a professor of Psychology and a political strategist at Emory University in Atlanta created an interesting study. He wrote a pair of completely contradictory statements from or about the two major presidential candidates in the 2004 election. Remember... they were intentionally contradictory. He gathered 15 confirmed Republicans and 15 confirmed Democrats, sat them down, and asked them to read both statements from/about both candidates. Now, get this... this is AWESOME. He hooked electrodes to their heads to see WHICH PARTS of their brains became active when they read the statements. Was it the cerebral cortex where our logical, rational mind exists that got activated? No way! In EVERY case (Republican AND Democrat), they "decided" that the statements made by their candidate WERE NOT contradictory, while their opponent's statements were completely contradictory. With me so far? The most interesting part of this study was what went on in their beady little heads... Again, in EVERY case, when reading the contradictory statements about the opponent, the PLEASURE center of their brain lit up like a Christmas tree. They felt GREAT that their beliefs were justified. Of course they agreed that the statements were contradictory. However, when confronted with contradictory statements by their own candidate, their brains registered "pain." Their minds seemed to instantly search for a cure for the pain, coming to the conclusion that the statements could not possibly be contradictory. Once they came to that conclusion, their minds seemed to gather evidence to support their belief. The instant they were able to rationalize their belief, the PLEASURE center of their brains lit up! This is the SAME part of the brain that experiences the "high" of a drug fix. Now understand this... The logical/rational part of their brains NEVER got activated in this process. And THAT'S why learning to LET GO is so important! What This Means To YOU...The bad news is that we're all wired to be stuck exactly where we're stuck. The good news is that you CAN change. The Power of Letting Go HELPS you to change... to LET GO of whatever thoughts, beliefs, ideas, concepts, feelings and emotions you might have that are keeping you from the life you want. Letting Go helps you to...
How Can You Know If The Power of Letting Go Is For You?If you're living the life you want... no worries, no cares, no frustrations... all the money, love and happiness you need... then you might not need it. If you don't have any anxiety, lack of self-esteem, or fear people to whom you're attracted… and you never hit a dry spell in sex or dating, it might not be for you. If you don't have any problems when you are "in the moment"… and you always do the right thing when it counts, you probably don't need it. On the other hand, there are certain "chronic" problems people have that don't EVER "just go away"… Read through the list below… and if you find that you have experienced ANY ONE of these problems, I highly recommend you grab the Power of Letting Go now.However… if while reading through this list you realize that you have experienced more than one… you NEED to get this program immediately:
The bottom line is this:I don't need to tell you whether or not you need the information that is in this program. If you need it, you already know it. There is a very good chance that this program contains THE KEY you need to have the success you want. And I want you to have it... And I want you to try it for 30 days RISK FREE. Why This Program Is Very Different From Everything Else Out ThereReason Number 1: It's not another self-help programThe Power of Letting Go isn't a self-help program. It's not something to make you feel good. This program won't ask you to repeat affirmations, place post-it notes on your mirror, or even write in a journal. You only have to listen to the program ONCE and you'll start feeling and seeing results in your life. And, with the COMPLETE program, you'll get the 4 Power of Letting Go Experience CD's, which will help you PERMANENTLY change those pesky old neural pathways that have kept you from getting what you want. Reason Number 2: It is designed to make you self-sufficientI've designed the entire program, especially the 4 Experience CD's to empower you to work the process on your own. Reason Number 3: It doesn't try to over-simplify the complexity of the human mind.I've seen - and tried - those programs that claim to "cure" you in one simple session. I KNOW it's not that easy, and so do you. That's why I created the 4 Experience CD's. I know that there are layers upon layers of complex programming that we have to sift through to get to where we want to be. I'm still at it... and will be for the rest of my life. The human psyche is complex, and anyone who tells you otherwise is a scam artist or fool - or both. Reason Number 4: It's affordable.I've seen others charge hundreds, even thousands of dollars for year-long programs that try to do the same thing (but usually fail because they never get to the root of the problem!). I've intentionally priced the program so that it won't cost you your life savings. I want to put YOU in control of your life by giving you the same gifts that I received on that beach in Hawaii. It's the gift of FREEDOM...
Reason Number 5: It's Guaranteed.I want to send you the Power of Letting Go - the COMPLETE Set - for you to evaluate for 30 days. And when you buy the complete set, you'll get some special bonus CD's... All for 30 days. Listen to the CD's. Experience the power of Letting Go for yourself. Join in on the Coaching calls. Then, if you don't think the Power of Letting Go will work for you, just send it back - but KEEP the bonus CD's. I'll gladly refund the money you paid for the program (less shipping and handling). And I'll send you the check PRIORITY mail within one business day of receiving your return package. Here's What You're Going To Get
Why is the Coaching Program Included?It took me years of learning, testing, and hard work to let go of my own programming. My wife can attest to the fact that when something comes up that SHOULD bother me, it lasts for maybe 30 seconds to a minute at the most. I read every psychology and self-help book on the market, attended DOZENS of seminars, and bought DOZENS of programs. In all, I probably spent years of my life, and thousands and thousands (and thousands and thousands) of dollars. I've worked with thousands of people to help them Let Go. In the process, I've learned how persistent our programming is, and WHY it often takes quite a bit of time to reverse that programming, even if you KNOW what's going on. Have you ever known that you were doing something that would be harmful, and while you're doing it, you KEEP on doing it? Me, too. Old habits die hard!I created the Coaching program to help keep you motivated and on track... and to attack the old programming the moment it re-surfaces (and it will). You can't hire me one-on-one. I no longer do one-on-one coaching. But you CAN get me one-on-one in this program if you step up and ask. I'm very proud of this program… because it's going to allow you to accomplish the things you need to do MUCH FASTER than I was able to… and at a much, much smaller investment. I want to help you get this part of your life handled, and I don't want ANYTHING to stand in your way… including your financial situation. I've decided to price the COMPLETE program at half off what you'd pay if you bought each piece separately... only $247 (plus shipping and handling). And it comes with my better-than-money-back Guarantee… Or, if you just want to try Program 1 (8 CD's), also for a substantial discount, you can do that below. Either way, I want you to have this program. Click on one of the links below to order. The Power of Letting Go Complete CD Package (Regularly $507)NOW ONLY $247
Plus... you get 30 days to try everything. If you're not happy, just return the Power of Letting Go CDs... you can KEEP the bonus CD's for your own use. I'll gladly refund your purchase (minus shipping and handling). The Power of Letting Go Set 1 (Regularly $189)NOW ONLY $97
I hope you join me.... Sincerely, Jim Britt P.S. This program will give you the tools to quickly and completely transform yourself into the type of man or woman who gets what you want. You'll be amazed at just how quickly you feel your confidence building... and the improvements in your life will start happening immediately. Chances are this program contains EXACTLY what you need to take your life to the next level, and I guarantee it will work for you as it has for so many other people. Don't hesitate... get this program now. You won't be disappointed. Watch These Videos of People Who Have Learned From The Power of Letting Go
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